Thursday, December 31, 2020

The Maybe-Not-So Bleak Midwinter


When the holiday season comes to a close, the wintery days before us can seem grim, dark and lonely. A long, cold winter in the midst of a global pandemic seems rather...well...like the song says, BLEAK. 😞 



We recently had our first snow storm of the season in my area and everyone was posting on the socials about how much they hated everything... shoveling the snow, scraping the ice, driving in the tough conditions, the freezing temperatures. I agree, winter is hard. But maybe there is beauty there as well? 


You have set all the borders of the earth;
You have made summer and winter.
                                          Psalm 74:17

Just as our bodies need rest from work and stress, so does the earth. God designed each of the seasons. They are all beautiful and purposeful. Instead of slipping into the default mode of complaining, why not try to look for the many blessings of winter with me!! And don’t forget to send some wintery snailmail! It is a sure fire way to spread joy in the bleak midwinter!! 


Once upon a time I was taking Lexi-the-wonder-dog out for a wintery walk. She spotted something to chase ðŸĪŠ and I could not keep up, to say the least. ðŸĪ• I broke my arm and ended up with a cast for six weeks and a slight fear of walking in the winter. 😟  I try to battle it, however, and challenge myself to get out in nature in the winter! It is amazing and beautiful and truly a winter wonderland! 



One of the easiest (and safest) ways to interact with nature in the winter is to set up a bird feeder. I enjoy spotting my feathered friends from the comfort of my own home. The bare branches of the winter trees make it much easier to spot the birds. On a recent trip home, Murphy Boy Wonder said, “I saw two cardinals and a blue jay in the tree outside the bedroom window this morning!” 😊 One can also easily notice abandoned bird nests, which are architectural marvels of nature, too! I also think it’s interesting to note the differences in the birds’ coloring for the different seasons. Check out the goldfinch’s winter verses summer coloring. 😊



I remember one winter when I was a middle schooler. I’m not sure why or how but my mother was able to force a hyacinth indoors and she let me keep it in my room!! ðŸĨ° Perhaps I was going through some particularly trying middle school drama and my mother sensed I needed some hope. A hyacinth blooming in the middle of winter in a girl’s bedroom is nothing if not hopeful. ðŸŒļ



I’ve never done it but I’m sure the interwebs would be helpful. I do know that hyacinth won’t bloom if the bulbs don’t get chilled enough. See? Winter is very important! 



Of course, no Mrs. Murphy list of “Winter Appreciation Activities” would be complete without a book list!! What’s better than curling up with a good book and a cup of tea while the snow falls. How about reading wintery tales such as: The Lion the Witch and The Wardrobe, Murder on the Orient Express, Smila Sense of Snow, Dr Zhivago, The Shining, to name a few. Or one could always choose a story set in the tropics! Death on the Nile is a great choice. (If you can’t have warm temperatures you can at least read about them! 😎🌞 🏝) 


Snailmail is the best winter activity by far!! Take some time during the long, cold nights of winter and write a letter to someone!! Nothing warms the heart quite like an honest to goodness letter!! And don’t forget to chose a delightful, winter themed stamp! 📎😊




“What good is the warmth of summer without the cold of winter to give it sweetness?”  John Steinbeck. 

Go postal, people! (In a good way!😊)

XOXO,
Mrs. Murphy 




Saturday, December 12, 2020

What Christmas Is All About, Charlie Brown.

 


I feel a special affinity with Charlie Brown... the empty mailbox, the lack of athletic prowess, the crazy dog. 😉 I am a huge fan of all things Peanuts and particularly love the FOREVER postage stamps celebrating the Christmas special!ðŸĨ°  A Charlie Brown Christmas was the very first animated special based on the Charles Schulz comic strip. It debuted on December 9, 1965.


In this special (just in case you’ve never seen it 😉) Charlie Brown finds himself depressed as the Christmas season rolls around. Lucy suggests Charlie get involved. She advises him to direct the neighborhood Christmas play. In typical Charlie Brown fashion, his best efforts are ignored and mocked by his peers. Enter Linus, his faithful friend, full of wisdom. He tells Charlie Brown about the true meaning of Christmas and Charlie cheers up. The Peanuts gang unites in the end to celebrate the Christmas season together!


Perhaps you are feeling a little dismayed by the holiday season this year. A little depressed, a little down. I would definitely agree this year has been rather depressing. 😞 Charlie is dismayed by the commercialism of the holiday, the shallowness of it all. Maybe you, like me, are upset because of all the loss this year. The loss of Christmas programs or the work Christmas party, the loss of big family celebrations or Christmas Eve services. Perhaps, worst of all, the loss of loved ones. 💔 


Maybe you’re feeling a little like Charlie this year...confused about what Christmas is all about. Is it even worth celebrating? And if it is, how on earth can we celebrate this crazy year? This year may be dark, dreary and barren but now is the time to plant! It’s the time to sow seeds of hope and joy and love! 



I’m not much of gardener but when Super Murphy Boy was in kindergarten he brought home a little pumpkin seed he had planted at school in a paper cup. We didn’t really have a spot in the yard to plant a pumpkin, so I found the biggest pot I could, filled it with dark, rich potting soil and transplanted the contents of the paper cup into it. We watered it and waited. All through the summer and fall we were amazed at what came out of that one, tiny pumpkin seed!! A small green sprout turned into a long, rambling vine that trailed up and out of the pot, and wound around the propane tank twice! This thick vine had broad succulent leaves and bright yellow, funnel shaped flowers and eventually four perfect pumpkins that were big enough to carve into Jack-o-lanterns 🎃 that fall!! 

Super Murphy Boy was proud of his tiny pumpkin seed. So was I. Did we have the power to make that seed grow? Nope, absolutely not. But we know and follow the God who does. The same God who packs all of that potential into that tiny pumpkin seed makes other things we plant grow, too. Like kindness and love and forgiveness and hope and joy and laughter! Anything done in the name of Jesus Christ is not done in vain. (1 Corinthians 15:58) It has ETERNAL value. It has amazing potential for growth. Even the tiniest of seeds. So get out there and start planting seeds this Christmas. Trust that the God who loved us enough to send His only Son to be born on Christmas and die on a cross for our sins, can and will cause our seeds to grow and blossom and bear fruit in our lives and for potentially countless others!! 



That’s what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown.

XOXO,

Mrs. Murphy


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